Sunday

I went to a more suburban mall today. I made my 5 approaches to finish up the 45 approached for the 2 weeks. No luck today again. When I feel good, my body language feels natural. When I don't, I am trying to learn to come across warm, happy, and genuine.

I suppose that's part of the challenge of any art or skill. Kobe Bryant can shoot the lights out on his best days, but when he's in a slump, how does he find a way to perform?

I finally set up a date tonight. High, high flake potential for most of the day with the girls changing plans the last minute again. We'll see :) Stay optimistic!

Saturday

I made about 10 approaches yesterday. They did not go as well. I talked to several very attractive girls, but they all seem to be on the go. One thing I still need to work on is my eye contact and facial expression. Remember Henry's call, cool, friendly demeanor.

5 More approaches to go.

Friday

I approached one girl at the mall, then when to a mixer where I talked to 3 girls. One girl was a cute pediatrician. I got her number along with the number of another not as attractive girl. 

4 approaches 15 more to go.

Thursday

I talked to a Polish girl who has a Cantonese boyfriend.

I went to target. On the way I talked to a half Asian girl.

At Target

- Younger cute girl
- Older woman who was going to a Dodger game
- Cute blonde getting medicine
- Tall Australian girl

I think that's it. 6 girls total.

19 more to go for May!

Another day

Despite a long day at work I stopped by the bookstore on the way home.

25 more approaches for March

Sunday Exercises

Although I had some obligations yesterday, I stopped by the mall anyways and did a few approaches. It started really well, getting phone number from this South African actress. I got another number from this young Argentinian girl. My body language is better now. I did some meditation in the morning. Perhaps that helps with relaxation.

I went shopping at a different mall today. I was exhausted and sleep deprived, but I managed to do one approach.

So in total I talked to 6 girls.

28 more to go.

A link to Forbes top 100 quotes

 http://www.forbes.com/sites/kevinkruse/2013/05/28/inspirational-quotes/

Definiteness of purpose is the starting point of all achievement. –W. Clement Stone

Flake City

The girl I met at the supermarket flaked on me. She text much later wanting a rain check. I did not respond. I approached 6 other girls at the shopping center today. I got 1 number, but she was not what I look for in a girlfriend. Although I would love to have sex with her :)

So 34 more approaches to go!

Day 2

I believe I approached 5 girls total in the past few days. I talked to 1 girl at Ralph’s that happen to know a friend of mine. We are suppose to have a date tomorrow. We’ll see. She seem kind of flaky. I also approached 2 other girl at the supermarket yesterday with no luck. Other than that, there were also 2 girls that I met at a business mixer who did not seem like they were there to meet guys. I e-mailed them anyways.

A New Beginning

I just opened up this blog again. When I stopped writing last year, I got into a relationship with a wonderful girl. We had our differences, and things did not work out. A positive note that came out of this relationship is that I know for sure now that a girlfriend is what I really want. I no longer want to sleep with random women without emotional connection.

Starting today, I am putting aside all excuses. I am starting this blog as an accountability announcement of my dedication to find the love of my life. I will make this my number one priority.
There are many path, routes, techniques to finding your potential partner. For now I am sticking with the basics. One guide book suggest speaking to at least 90 girls a month. Since I only have 2 weeks left in March, I will speak to 45 girls. I really only have 8-9 free days out of those 2 weeks. Which means talking to 5 girls a day.

March goal – Speak to 45 girls.

 I promise myself that today I will start a new lifestyle. I will do whatever it takes to become a sexy, confident man who dates beautiful, intelligent women. I will do whatever it takes to achieve this goal. I will not stop until I accomplish it!