Day (4), (5), 6

Day (4)

I put day 4 in parentheses since I only went on a date that had almost no potential for sex.

I met up with the k-pop girl from yesterday for dinner. We went to a Korean Cafe, then I took her to see some tourist sites. She's way too shy and introverted. Most of the times she avoided my eye contact. I put my arm around her couple of times, and she didn't really cozy up to me. I figure that's a sign that she's not DTF. She didn't talk much either. I had to keep asking her questions. All in all it was OK. I think it was valuable to spend time with a young college girl. It will only make me more comfortable around them when I approach the ones that I like.

Day (5)

Another parenthesis day. I figure I'll give myself credit for it so I won't lose momentum, but honestly I hardly did jack yesterday. I was shopping for some new clothes for the summer, and I tried combining that with approaches. I just never picked up the momentum, and I was stuck in my head the whole time. Only made 5 approaches that were really half assed. Love Chris' audio though. Inspire me to go for the number even if I am in a hurry. Most of the times I really have to go somewhere, but now I know I can literally stop for 90 seconds and try to get a number.

Day 6

Another not so stellar day.

I haven't been feeling very relaxed when I approaches girls. Especially inside stores, my voice feel very stifled. Over the weekend, at the beach, I was relaxed, and I talked very freely. For me, I find if my voice sounds timid or stifled, the girl ignores me very quickly. I love listening to Chris' audios. He just talks so freely, a bit of an ass, and very masculine, and a bit dominant. That along with his looks, size, and presence, no wonder girls don't walk away from him.

Today I tried the "Aren't you gonna tell me I am attractive?" I am OK with doing that. I am not doing it to make a girl laugh. I throw that statement out there to further screen the girl. I want to screen for girls who find me attractive or just cool compliant girls. I don't want any feminine Nazi who's gonna talk shit back to me.

I got a number from this tall blonde Lithuanian chick. I text her tomorrow see if she responses.

Self-Discipline – How close your day-to-day behavior reflects the person you wish to be. This is a longer-term fidelity to how you envision your ideal self. Self-discipline, beyond simply persevering in the moment, represents a daily self-directness in all of your actions.