Day 33

2 Approaches

Total 28

Day 32

12 Approaches

26 Total

Review priorities, hobbies.

- Painting
- Photography - 10 photoshoots
- Krav Maga
- Working out
- Diet
- Traveling
- Pick-up
- Socializing
- Salsa

Day 31

About 7 approaches

Day 30 - Sunday

Goal - be more commanding, lead
Always be closing

Beach game

1 - Married with tramp stamp
2 - Podiatry medical student
3 - Russian girl
4 - German girl

Promanade

5 - Hot blonde
6 - Tall blonde
7 - Barns and Nobel sitting

Day 29 - Saturday

I did a little bit of night game.

1 - OC girls
2 - Blonde advertising girl
3 - Hello kitty
4 - Getting married - should have engaged other girls
5 - Georgia - walked away. Next time have more of "Chris's vibe"
6 - Squeezed asian girls arm - next time tell her "come here"
7 - Mexican girls - good at story telling and push-pull

Shoot for ABC. Always be closing.

Total of 34 Approaches this week, well short of the 60 I wanted to do.

Day 28 - Friday

Did AA Drill where I introduce myself to 20 girls

I also went to a young professional meet-up. I talked to 4 girls that I was sexually interested in. I got 1 number. I need to remind myself to talk about fun things to do, and get number sooner rather than later.

I also need to follow up on this girl. I don't mind fucking her just once or twice.

Day 27

4 Approaches at Target

Day 26

9 Approaches in the Pasadena

Day 22

Made 6 approaches at mall near beach. One girl told me she's been approached 4 times already. I ended up talking to this Russian girl for a while and got her number.

Day 21

Made about 8 approaches of girls that I am interested in. One who was rude that I would not want to fuck anyway. I got into a decently long conversation with one Mexican chick that ended up no where.

10 Pick-up Skills

1 - Body language, smile eye contact, tonality

2 - Opening - be present, observe what is going on
Can I say something? Can I give you a complement?

3 - Polarize, screen, teasing, push-pull (Aren't you gonna tell me I am attractive also? You have a strong hand shake?

4 - Conversation question
- Focus on the present, if nothing to focus on then
- What brings you out today? What are you up to today? I like your accent, let me guess where you are from? I like your style, are you a......

5 - Leading, dominance, mini-venue change

6 - Story telling, I-statement, relating, talking about human relationships, personalities

7 - Sexualization (eye contact, SOI, future projection) maintaing the intent

8 - Qualification

9 - Instant date

10 - Deep rapport 80% comfort, 15% attraction, 5% sexualization (4 questions, eliciting value)

Day 20

Uneventful day despite mass approaching. I don't think mass approaching at the mall during a weekday is very productive. I got good responses from a few girls, one number, but overall nothing to speak of.

Perhaps I should approaches later in the day.

Had a super fun night of making out, dancing with this Indian chick, but botched the pull.

Thoughts on dating goals

I've had my share of one night stands, making out with girls in bars and clubs. I had some cool same night pull from bars where I fuck the girl good. It was awesome. I pulled a girl in Vegas for sex. That was awesome too. I've fucked tall skinny blond with nice tits. I've fucked short cute blond girl. I've even fucked a stripper. How much more do I want? How much more do I need? Is it really a desire for experience or is it an issue of ego where I will only feel adequate as a man if I have all these crazy conquests.

No one can have every crazy type of sexual experiences the world has to offer. Even Chris the GLL never get to travel the world and fuck exotic foreign women. When you get to a certain degree, it becomes an obsession, a fetish.  My sexual hunger is not even that great. So what do I really want?

One thing I know right now is when I meet a really cool girl such as Monica, I was ready to settle down. A cool, attractive, intelligent girl that comes along, I am ok to wrap it up :)

Another part of this is getting good at this picking up women stuff. I've invested so much time in this I feel like I need to get good at this. This is a fair pursuit. Am I OK with trading this for meeting the right girl for me. Think hard about this. When you meet that right girl, it is not bailing out of them game. It is not quitting. Success is defined by giving it all I got given the confines of the circumstance. The circumstance is that I am getting older. As long as I practice my pick up deliberately, intelligently, continuously, that in itself is success.

So what now?

I will go out once a week to practice picking up women. The skill to relax, connect, lead, a girl is what I need. The notches on the belt is more for an ego boost. Whether I reach that goal or not, its not a big deal. So I basically have 4 1/2 month. That's about 18 weekends. During this time I will also approach girls during the day, and hopefully meet someone special.

Day 19

I met a cute German student here on internship.

Day 18

Again, a lot of rejections or girls engaged or have boyfriends.

At some point my mind got really negative. But now looking at this journal, I am only at day 18, and I already had some crazy adventures.

I am going to log some of the better interactions. Keep things positive.

Missy - cute girl in Pasadena. We had a great conversation, but she told me she is very specific about the type of guys she dates. I bailed out, but she seemed to wanted to talk some more. Come on girl, you rejected me and still expect me to keep you company?

Russian singer -  I had a nice flirtatious conversation with this leggy Russian singer. It was fun despite her having a BF.

Melanie -  Good response, but reluctantly gave me her number.

Netflix girl - Got a business card from her, but she seemed reluctant to go out.

Duke girl - I have a fun conversation with this smart graduate student, but she is engaged. Next time lead, lead. If the vibe is decent, take her hand and lead fro 30 seconds.

Savannah - good response, number close. I should have develop more rapport.

Honestly 12 out 14 girls gave polite to good response.

Next time - lead, lead, venue change.

Day 17

Did about 14 approaches using the, "Do you want to go one a date?" approach.

Next time, I will do a little more rapport and  be persistent and ask both about tonight and tomorrow night's availability.