Daygame by Todd

Attraction

Hooking

Attention
Interest
Decision
Action

Conversation exercises
Yes and
I love, I hate
Push-pull - positive statement followed by a negative statement
Mini cold read - you are so xxx you are like yyy
Misinterpretation

Be playful and engaging, and make the conversation about her
Be the CEO of the world, make fun of her
Pus-pull, mini cold read, mis-interpretation
Find her blueprint

You look so ridiculous, wholesome, and cute right now.
Are you as sweet as you seem or as much trouble as you might be.
You have the most expressive face.
High five than pull back

Hypothetically scenario to sexually charge a conversation.
What would you do if a guy want to take you home and have sex with you.

Connection

You want a girl to brag to her friends about your status, and the connections that you two have
Find the duality in her

Strength and Weakness, Like and Dislike, Expertise and experience

Strength

Creative

Visualization 

Good test taker

Ok at math

Cash reserve

Experience
Anesthesia
Medicine
Real estate
Stock market
Photography and painting
Travel
Women and pick-up
Mandarin,
Meditation
Exercise, physical therapy and rehab
Math
Physics
Online dating
Self improvement
Yoga

Weakness

Easily stressed

Never complete work

What's important
Relationship and girls
Friendship

Pros and Cons of SM vs DTLA

Moving completely to Santa Monica

Not having to live in the guesthouse which is hot
Do not have to sneak around the tenant
Potential damage to the second car.
Pay contractor to build parking area. 
Enjoy the house and having the yard to myself for a bit
May get the guest house back in the future
Easier to rent airBnB making up the difference in lower rent in DTLA.
Hosting BBQ. Grill steak and chicken breast for dinner.
No swimming pool or gym.

Keeping Downtown apartment

Picking up girls at Target or Ralphs
Meet other girls in the building
Easier to park the second car
Santa Monica house may rent a few hundred dollars more.
Max $500 more in rent DTLA $3500-700$=$2800 SM $3300 but maybe just $2-300
Use that money to renovate garage.
Be closer to Kathleen and able to participate in downtown activities

Priorities

Marriage and Family
According to Maslow's behavioral need, a sense of family and community is very important. 

Friendship
Maybe I don't need to actively seek out new friends, but just cultivate my current friendship.
Pick-up friends?
Boredom during free time. Plan more.


Confidence

Health
Hearing, gastritis, IBS, joint problems

Professional Success
Is it a state of mind or an actual need? I don't really need that much money to survive, but a little more sure gives you confidence. I think going to St. Johns is the right choice. Although doing surgery center is relaxed and easy. It does erode your sense of self worth.

Invention

Blogging and website

Being in a cool profession like aerospace engineering.

Sexual adventures
Being good at pick up
Traveling and see the world

Weekly Review

It's funny I still obsess over getting laid and banging girls. What are my priorities? Do you want to bang a lot more chicks before you settle down? Kinky sex?

I am almost 44 y/o. Pretty soon I won't be able have to have children!!! Girls in their early 30's will not even want to date me. Dad is almost 85 y/o. Mom is getting older too. But will you be motivated by fear or by love and inspiration???

I love the strength and goodness in people, in girls.

The media feed us with crazy, absurd expectations of how life should be. Yes, life can be boring, but it can be fun and full of meaning too.

Go with your feelings as Luis would say. What makes your feel good. Looks fade. A good heart lasts forever.

Your ego, insecurities, ambition, place in the world, sense of importance. All these matters. How they dictate your life though. How you prioritize them. That is what you need to consider.

What are your goals for the week?

Dating

Approaches
- If done with work after 2-3 pm then go to the Grove and do some approaches.
- If it's earlier than go back to downtown then approach in DTLA.

Text all the girls
- POF
- Cancel match.com
- Pay for Coffee Meets Bagle

Sexual desires - Las Vegas

Finance

Consolidate money
Follow up house

Healthy

Taper off PPI
Thoracic spine stretching
Cardio

31 Days of Discipline and Confidence

2/12 - 3/14

1 - Daily Planning. Leave 3 hours of free time.
2 - Meditate 10 minutes 3 times a week
3 - Daily confidence affirmations
4 - Speak loudly every day.
5 - Eye contact with everyone. Smile as much as appropriate.  Look at a girl until she looks away. With guys nod acknowledged. Try to connect with everyone.
6 - 3 times per week supporting muscle exercises (neck, shoulder, hip) +/- supplements
Maximum 2 alcoholic drinks a week, masturbate no more than 4 times a week
7- Weekly reflection and goal planning

Confidence Affirmations

When I breath, I inhale confidence and certainty. I exhale timidity and self doubt
I approve of myself and love myself deeply and completely.
I live in the present and am confident of the future.
I am well groomed, healthy and full of confidence.
My outer well being is matched by my inner well being.

My personality exudes confidence. I am bold and outgoing.
I am energetic and enthusiastic.
Energy creates energy. Motion creates emotion.
I love meeting strangers and approach them with boldness and enthusiasm.
I wear a bright smile on my face and greets people with warmth and good will.
I always attract only the best of circumstances and the best positive people in my life.

I am self-reliant, creative and persistent in whatever I do.
I am a problem solver. I focus on solutions and always find the best solution.
I love change and easily adjust myself to new situations.
I love challenges. They bring out the best in me.

Confidence is my second nature.
Self confidence is what I thrive on.
Nothing is impossible and life is great.

Positivity Self Instructions

I emphasize the positive in everything I do. I look at the good that can come out of every situation.
I talk about the best qualities of every person I meet. I concentrate on the good aspect of every place and things. In both thoughts and speech, I chose positive words to describe everything. I am in favor of doing so, so that I will constantly be building my resistance to pessimism. I stay positive because success is positive and that's the side I always want to be on.

Relationship Affirmations

I am feeling relaxed, more relaxed. As I breathe in through my nose and breath out through my mouth 5 times I become totally relaxed now. In this relaxed state I feel energetic, alive, and powerful.

I love and accept myself completely.
I am a good person. I am smart, interesting, kind, and fun.
I am proud of my accomplishments. I feel strong, confident, and masculine. 

I am a sexy mother fucker.
I can think of many very attractive women who had a good time with me, and were very attracted to me.

I love and enjoy talking, flirting, and interacting with women.

I love women, the way they walk, talk, smile, dress, and laugh.

I love women, their body, breasts, arms, hands, legs, hips, and ass.

Women want to meet me.

Women think I am hot.

I know everywhere I go, some woman want to have sex with me. I just have to find out.

With women who are interested, I know I can emotionally connection with them.

I deserve to live a life filled with abundance of beautiful women pursuing me for sex.

I am comfortable and open with my sexuality, and women are comfortable and open being sexual with me.
I am a sexy mother fucker.

My body language is really relaxed now. I am a relaxed, confident, masculine, sexy motherfucker.

My face, eyes, and muscle are more relaxed and I am looking more masculine and sexy.

I feel and look happy. I am fun, relaxed, animated, charming like Cary Grant.

My voice is getting deeper, sexier, more sensual and seductive and with more volume.

When girls see me they say wow.
The longer I talk to them, the more they get to know me, the more attracted they are to me.
I am a sexy, confident, mother fucker.
Everywhere I go girls want to fuck me.
I love myself.

Confidence Booster

I am having a great time feeling so confident and assured and totally in command of everything I do.
I really enjoy walking up to girls and talking so easily and comfortable with them.
And charming them with my seductive words and voice.
I am really enjoying flirting with all kinds of women teasing them with sexy thoughts and suggestions.
And enjoying their fun and laughter. Knowing how easily I am captivating them.
And experiencing my powerful sexual attraction drawing women to me like a magnetic force. 

And it's great fun reading their body language signals.
And using their signals to guide my words and actions.
And knowing exactly what to say to excite them and feeling their desire for me growing more and more intense.

And it's so much fun feeling my own sexuality growing stronger and more confident and sensing women's sexual hunger for me growing more and more intense as I grow more and more confident in myself each and everyday knowing how special and unique I am and knowing I can have any woman I want.

And I really enjoying my affirmations. Know my confidence is growing stronger and stronger everyday.


Tasks and goals for the month

Taxes
Personal capital
Real estate license
Mirror exercise
Improve appearance
Follow-up apartments
Refinance mortgage
Improve credit scores
Re-do online dating profile

Family Meeting 2/8/2015

How to merge your goal of meeting women with finance? The most basic is to study your real estate at the bookstore.

Even though mom and dad are coming for a month, you must stay focused on your goal of dating. They feel the same too. They are here to support you.

IBS

No alcohol. Black tea for breakfast or black decaf.

Egg and bacon for breakfast. Avoid bread and noodle.
 

Meditation, visualization.
Order rice cooker.
Review potential apartments. Taxes.

Projects
- Blogging
- Photography
- Real estate
- Personal capital
- Applying to Kaiser

Fitness progress

38 push ups