Wednesday, July 30, 2014

Post AA Day 3

- Hold hand and say let's stand here so we won't block traffic
- Hold had and try to guess her profession :)
- Let's go get a cup of coffee
- Come here for a second
- Follow me

Tuesday, July 29, 2014

Conversation threads

- you have an accent, let me guess, you are from
- What are you up to today? Weather is awesome here. I am from Boston.
- Talk about the situation - dancing/books
- Talk about personality, people I know 
- Tell me how you got into modeling in the beginning 
- how do you keep life from getting too stale
- how do you expand your horizon
- what's your favorite thing in the world
White room
Color
Animal
Water

Post AA Day 2

Banter and polarize from the get go.

- So, aren't you going to tell me I am attractive?
- Need to memorize name
- Squeeze arm
- Shopping for shoes
- What's your favorite thing in the whole world
- You are trouble, you are a trouble maker, are you causing drama
- When I think of French girl I think of - passionate, idealistic, open minded

- Talk like man to woman
4 question game - white room, color, animal, water

Went to the beach to day, French girl talk about her tattoo, how it's a fairly, following her heart.
I get the sense that you are a generally positive, optimistic person.You have a curious mind.
Are your adventurous and spontaneous?

Made 6 approaches today and got one number. I notice that if the girl is already laughing, than I feed off that energy and I become more fun and flirty. The challenge is when the girl is not giving me anything. I need to learn how to lead the interaction.

I think I am ready to move on to day 3.

Post AA Day 1

Eye contact, warm and friendly, project your voice, screening mentality.

Quick situational opener and transition into direct.

Saturday, July 26, 2014

Notes from a Natural

Set up and follow through

- When getting a girl's number, tell her I don't text.
- I am not a huge texter. I'll text, but I prefer talking on the phone.
- Ask her, when is the best time to call you?
- Can I give you a call tomorrow night?
- How about I call you tomorrow night?
- I am home chilling right now. Want to talk?
- Are you one of those girls who don't talk on the phone?

- I was a little nervous approaching you earlier, but I am glad I talked to you.
- Thanks for talking to a stranger.
- It's kind of hard talking to meet cool people in LA.
- You know what? You are a really cool girl. This went a lot better than I thought. I didn't expect to meet such a cool girl.
- On Tinder.  I think you are really cute, attractive.

At the beach

- As soon as the energy is dying, wrap it up, give a nice complement at the end.

I am at a point in my life.
They want a guy who know who he is.

Talia - 3 Day Rule.

Tuesday, July 22, 2014

Post AA Program

1 - Smile, strong eye contact, relaxed body language

Voice exercise
2 - Flirting, joking

- You are trouble, you are a trouble maker, are you causing drama

3 - Leading
4 - Wide rapport
5 - Deep rapport - cold read

 http://www.seductionbase.com/seduction/cat/In_the_Middle/br/385_3.html

 1) You have a strong need for others to like and admire you
2) You have a tendency to be critical of yourself.
3) You have a great deal of unused capacity which you have not turned to your advantage.
4) Your past relationships have presented problems for you.
5) You can be disciplined and controlled on the outside, and worrisome and insecure on the inside.
6) You sometimes doubt your own decisions.
7) You like change and variety and don't like to be hemmed in by restrictions and limitations.
8) You are independent minded and need proof before accepting others opinions.
9) You have found it unwise to be too frank in revealing yourself to others.
10) At times you are extroverted and sociable, while at others you are introverted and reserved.
11) Some of your aspirations tend to be pretty unrealistic

6 - Setting up date on the spot
7 - Kissing
8 - Groups
9 - Hired guns
10 - Approach when others are listening
11 - Fast walking girls